Traveling [solo] for work

I have traveled alone previously, and for three weeks. In Europe. But, I was much younger then. These days, no matter how much I love to travel, my apprehension grows as I stand face to face with the reality of having to go to a far away city… for work. Alone. I suppose it’s not the travel itself that causes anxiety, but the thought of “there”, on my own, with people I am meeting for the first time.


I’m not a morning person so I choose flights that depart a little later, say about or after ten o’clock, schedule and cost permitting.


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This section of the lounge is empty because it was cordoned off; for maintenance, I guess.

My flight is delayed. It’s my perfect opportunity to finally use the slow lounge that’s available to me, as a Private Banking client of First National Bank. Nothing would dissuade me, although I was held up just a little. The power of persuasion of the shoe shine folks cannot be ignored by weaklings like me. Avoiding them from the start is advisable, unless you want your shoes to shine. However, do not let them shine only the front part of the shoes that stick out of the extra long pants you wear.


The problem with being a non-morning person is that all these (see pictures below), which I would normally devour and gobble heartily and courageously, or perhaps savor appreciatively and with fervor, are wasted. For me. Not even after ten o’clock in the morning.

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I am not saying that I did not have any. Of course I did.

Hopefully, next time, especially for international flights, I will be waiting for an evening flight and I will have more time in the lounge. Then, I can try a drink or two, other than lemon-flavored sparkling water and latte.

The delay didn’t go beyond the scheduled delay. Basking in the wonderful world of lounging with ridiculous amount of sustenance was brief. For me, that is. It was possible that around the same time, some passengers were enjoying the spa.

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I did manage a couple of selfies as shown above and below. I took them rather stealthily as this practice still makes me embarrassed at times.

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I must reiterate this: always listen to airport announcements!

So… I thought let me use the bathroom facilities in the slow lounge. I suspected that it’s a lot better than the main airport or the plane. My suspicion was accurate.

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Outside the slow lounge: there is a bathroom somewhere here for passengers…

Here is the bathroom I opted to use, before leaving the comfort and luxury of the slow lounge.

After the lavatory visit, anxious I would get left behind, I decided to follow up at reception if my flight was still delayed. I had been waiting for the announcement on the update. As I asked, they realized, the first boarding call was, in fact, being called. I walked away as one of the ladies made the announcement via the public address system. I did not pay attention. I knew I had to proceed to the boarding gate.

Confidently, I walked to Gate D4. It was empty.

Was I dreaming?

Was it a joke?

I checked a TV screen for my flight to double-check the gate number even if my boarding pass said D4. Indeed, it was changed. I walked all the way back and a bit more to D1.

Do not ignore the PA system!


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Boarded and ready for take-off, I turned my phone’s flight mode on. I contemplated on keeping it on, having done so before when flying private, but I decided I was an obedient child and I switched it off. I shifted my focus to outside [of our small plane].

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Yes, I was going to fly on a small plane. I’m not fond of them. 747s, I find, are slightly better. But, 737s are not that small. I consoled myself saying I’ve flown smaller before. A Citation I is rather tiny, accommodating 6 passengers.

I watched the airplanes around me. The green Kululas and orange Mangosโ€”I know they are supposed to be yellow… some people don’t know colorsโ€”look like they’re there to cheer up the blandness of boring white planes. I took a picture.

(That was earlier. I had gone too fast with my story; this was before I switched off my phone. I might have to buy a point and shoot again. Limitations of mobile phones as cameras…)

We were finally moving. So was my mind. Right then, I was wishing there was some recorder that took note of my thoughts as I thought them; no, not when I said aloud my thoughts. I don’t want a dictaphone. There are almost always people around me. I still want to be seen as normal and sane. Even selfies sometimes make me apprehensive.


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I have had my lunch. I didn’t excuse myself. Apologies. I am back.

It’s only 12:30, up in the sky, and I have had a latte, more than half a half-liter of sparkling water with a hint of lemon and lime, some fruits, milk tart, nougat, pain au chocolate, and airplane food. Yesterday, I didn’t have anything except for two cups, a mug and a cup, actually, of coffee… although I think I get served cappuccino every morning in the office.

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Back to selfies… or taking pictures, I do get shy still. I know, right! One of the servers at the slow lounge offered to take a picture of me with the beautiful spread of deliciousness to be included on this blog post. I politely refused, and added with a laugh that I didn’t want to be too famous. Sometimes, I do think I have what it takes to go into comedy.


And back to before take-off… I was writing during my flight although the edit is happening only now, being before publishing weeks later.

I have a window seat. I prefer to look out of the window.

Just before take off, there is a queue. That small orange Mangoโ€”I know, I knowโ€”is waiting to take off. Behind it, at the turn, is a bigger A330 Turkish Airways…? Airlines…? I will have to Google. I can’t take a photo because my Galaxy is already switched off. Just picture it in your head. Then, it’s us, a small Com Air plane, pretending to be British Airways. We’re parallel to the Mango. We, the passengers of both flights, could have waved at each other.

Orange Mango–I know, is it an orange or a mango? Seriously–disappears quickly. Turkish plane prepares to head out to Eastern Europe. I hear our engine revving louder as we start off again. It’s more a humming sound as we glide on consistent speed. Turkey is still moving but not off the ground, but surely faster than the fastest car… I hope. Is it planning to lift its body? Granted, this Turkey is a lot bigger than the Orange… ah, Mango.

We’re ready, but we’re just idling. Turkey hasn’t lifted off yet? That runway better be long. Waiting… Ah, finally.

It’s actually quite scary. Thankfully, I have walls around me. They give me the sense of security so my knees do not go weak and I do not end up with jelly legs… although jelly legs will be better than Deadpool’s legs after his encounter with the Juggernaut.


It may have all sounded exciting up to this point, but no. The flight was uneventful, apart from the fact that we couldn’t be served hot drinks as the fasten seat belt had to be turned back on because of someโ€”as in tinyโ€”turbulence. Obviously, I don’t fear flying.

(The same thing happened on the way back.)

As for my meeting people for the first time, it went better as well as it could. I had no reason whatsoever to be apprehensive about showing up in a strange office, in a city far away from my home city, where I knew no one. I am almost tempted to ask why I don’t do this whole traveling solo for work.

Unfortunately, I did not take any pictures with my hosts. I was shy. Kind of…


…but here is the photo of the orange mango. ๐Ÿ™‚

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Next post will be some sort of reviewโ€”a short reviewโ€”of the Garden Court Kings Beach, in Port Elizabeth. It is a 3-star hotel sufficient for business travel purpose, it seemed, and it was, except…

25 thoughts on “Traveling [solo] for work

    1. Hi Drew. I can imagine, especially when it’s the rule/norm. It is better to have at least another soul to keep us company. When it’s once in a while only, it has the novelty that makes it fun, although mostly because of the people we encounter. I hope you get to experience vacationing with company. Take care. Hugs, Anne

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  1. Nice one Anne! That breakfast spread in the slow lounge is really something… I can relate with taking selfies. Awkward lol. I almost never take selfies, and I sometimes get weird looks from people when I take pictures of my food before I eat them. I am always almost tempted to explain that it’s for my blog lol.

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    1. Ooh, I always explain I’m a blogger. Even when I had take pics of the reception and breakfast areas in the hotel where we stayed in Gaborone, Botswana recently. And the 5-star in Sun City where we were for my birthday weekend. ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜€
      The slow lounge makes me want to travel more. Hahaha.

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      1. I should do that, and I do sometimes actually, but not often enough I guess. However, it’s kinda hard to explain to people in a restaurant lol. Sometimes, they look at me funny and maybe think that I’m going to post the pictures on Facebook. I don’t really care anymore though. I’m naturally shy, but I should be able to do my thing =)

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      2. And, although I should practice what I preach, we shouldn’t really care what others think. I should print business cards that says “writer, poet, publisher, blogger”, with the websites addresses and leave them everywhere. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ Ah, I should do that. ๐Ÿ˜›๐Ÿ˜œ
        Much love and hugs ๐Ÿค—โค๐Ÿ˜˜

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  2. Sounds like major fun!!!
    Your camera is really good.๐Ÿ‘
    You can absolutely do comedy I have no doubt about it.
    N don’t worry about the selfies……everybody does it now….it is not in vogue to take selfies covertly anymore…….you absolutely must get the selfie stick๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

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    1. It ended up quite fun, yeah. ๐Ÿ˜
      Guess what my camera is… taa-daa… Samsung Galaxy Note 8. Hehehe. Hubby complains I don’t use the proper camera, which is his Lumix but it’s heavy and bulky. This camera is sufficient. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
      Thank you for the encouragement. ๐Ÿค— Always much appreciated. Even just to interject good humour here and there is great for me. Stories/writing, like life, must have all the ingredients, right? Even if one must be prominent, as a specific genre.
      Oh no! Selfie stick is too much. I will practice taking selfies with confidence… soon, I’ll be a professional proud selfie taker. Haha!
      Much love and hugs โค๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜˜

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      1. Now that is one phone with a badass camera but I think you are also a good photographer. I agree with you re the ‘real’ cameras…..just toooo heavy๐Ÿ˜ƒ.
        Always my pleasure to stop by Anneโค๐Ÿ˜˜

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      2. Aww, thanks my dear friend. I’d like to think I know a little about capturing images, without the technical knowledge. ๐Ÿ˜‰
        Take care. ๐Ÿค—โค๐Ÿ˜˜

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  3. Interesting… got me to thinking and I suddenly realized that solo travel has always had a purpose for me… something needing to be done, whether work or some other form of “life maintenance”. If the travel is recreational, even just “escape”, I tend (and prefer) to share the experience, even if it involves compromise.

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    1. Ah, I see that. Solo travel is a response to a necessity. It serves a purpose. We have to do those solo traveling here and there, as required. ๐Ÿ˜Š And yes, traveling with others, although fun, involves some compromises.

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  4. Definitely not a morning person either- so I can definitely relate. Haha. Really enjoyed this post- traveling alone for work is definitely something that resonates with me. I think though that solo travel is one of the most rewarding things in life, but it can be uncomfortable. Once you’ve done it a few times, it does become pretty commonplace!
    Anyway, keep up the great work!!!

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    1. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I must agree with you about solo travel being one of the most rewarding things in life. It is daunting, but the experience give a more without the comfort of company. Apart from learning more about what’s out there, we can learn about us, too. We realize certain aspects about us that might not have been obvious without the apprehension.
      Thank you! ๐Ÿค—


  5. Ah! I am envious of you, my friend, traveling for work, and especially that long-ago trip of 3 weeks to Europe. But I am also not envious of the struggle of air travel these days, though you did it right with private lounge space. Hugely de-stressing just to be out of the main area, especially for us in the US with all the security. It’s a challenge! ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. It must be the wanderlust that lives in me. ๐Ÿ˜Š I do enjoy traveling a whole lot. Even the plane seats (and leg room) don’t bother me. Hubby is 6’2″ so it’s a struggle for him.

      Air travel within the States was new for me. Last time, almost four years ago, we only flew into and out of the country. We drove to Vegas. Last December, we flew from NY to LV, then LV to LA, then San Diego to Orlando. We were forced to drive from Orlando to NY, stopping in VA for the night and in Philly for a bit or “touristing”. It was an adventure. The flight to NY via Dubai was great. The flight back, stopping in Milan and almost a whole night in Dubai, was exhausting. It took me a week or a bit more to get over the jetlag. It was easier to adjust to the time zones from SA to NY to LV/LA/San Diego then to FL. I definitely need to get started with blogging about it. I wish we had the opportunity to meet up. But, there will be more trips to the States. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿค—โค๐Ÿ˜˜

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      1. Yes, I’m sure we will meet one day. I just met Luanne Castle, poet blogger, in Phoenix last month and that was my first blog-in-person meeting, and it was quite nice. I’m sure it will work out.

        Those air travel schedules sound exhausting! Good for you for toughing it out!

        If you end up back in So. Cal. one day, I’d be glad to fly down and meet up there. I have family in San Diego and in the Anaheim area, can easily combine a trip to see them. ๐Ÿ™‚ And one day I really do hope to get to S. Africa! Saving my pennies! ๐Ÿ™‚

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      2. I am looking forward to that! We have to. We could have, actually. We stayed in San Diego from the 22nd to the 29th of December, although we were in LA (more San Bernardino, actually) half the time. My relatives live in Fontana. We also spent a night in Anaheim. We don’t have any plan to go back to San Diego soon but when we do go to LA, we can find a meeting place, I am sure. Better yet, maybe I will try out Seattle. Let me know when there is no rain. Hehe. We would love the snow though. ๐Ÿ˜Š

        I will take leave when you come to SA. no need to worry much about accommodation in Johannesburg. I have an AirBnB condo unit. ๐Ÿ˜‰


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